It's always great when your partner enjoys them too. I have a buddy who them a lot, but refuses to learn how to tie them. That strategy insures that I'll be there to tie it on him. It's great to be fundoshi-clad together. That's why I turn green with envy every time John mentions his fundoshi parties!
When I first started wearing a fundoshi, my g/f kind of tolerated it as an amusement and just another crazy guy thing but as it became clear that I was serious, I went through some changes. I became more open about my body and my sexuality and she liked what she saw. Then she began picking out colors for me each morning and watching me tie my fundoshi as part of getting the day started. When buddies of mine began wearing them too, I began having fundoshi parties and what woman doesn't enjoy a dozen men wearing very little? She would watch us get playful, swim, swap, and just be guys. Then she asked me to tie one on her and she found out what I like so much. The custom fit feels awesome. She enjoys seeing me "get friendly" with the other guys and I need that touch. It's a real sharing of erotic energy even if it doesn't have to go anywhere in that setting. She really enjoyed seeing me make out with a buddy and I loved the exchange of energy. We have both evolved a lot in regard to what we feel is appropriate and inappropriate. Being naked or nearly so is just really natural and now that she is into a fundoshi, I can anticipate whether she will pair it with a top or not around the house.
As for my fundoshi parties, they are a lot of fun. There is something very "college" about all of the clothes coming off as soon as everyone enters the house. The swimming, fundoshi swaps and the hugs are all good. In talking with the guys one on one the next week, I find that they all get something good out of this which carries forward. Some have even hooked up and I think we have two that are becoming a serious couple as a result of meeting this way. I see fundoshi as about loosening up, throwing off the conventions and learning who we are. If you can hang with your buddies naked or nearly so, you can all be who you are and have a good time. You can kiss a buddy and not have to explain what kind of emotion it is or be defensive about it. I'm so glad I've broken down that wall. This is just good "guy stuff", but I am aware I'm a better partner to my g/f too. I'm more in tune with her needs. No piece of cloth can do that but it was a catalyst for shaking off convention and learning more about who we are.
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Oh man! Total woody here!
My girlfriend asked if I thought she'd look good in a fundoshi. I said yes! Definitely! We're going to pick out some fabrics and colors.
Yeah, go for it! That's great! We did the same here and now we are both having fun!
It's always great when your partner enjoys them too. I have a buddy who them a lot, but refuses to learn how to tie them. That strategy insures that I'll be there to tie it on him. It's great to be fundoshi-clad together. That's why I turn green with envy every time John mentions his fundoshi parties!
When I first started wearing a fundoshi, my g/f kind of tolerated it as an amusement and just another crazy guy thing but as it became clear that I was serious, I went through some changes. I became more open about my body and my sexuality and she liked what she saw. Then she began picking out colors for me each morning and watching me tie my fundoshi as part of getting the day started. When buddies of mine began wearing them too, I began having fundoshi parties and what woman doesn't enjoy a dozen men wearing very little? She would watch us get playful, swim, swap, and just be guys. Then she asked me to tie one on her and she found out what I like so much. The custom fit feels awesome. She enjoys seeing me "get friendly" with the other guys and I need that touch. It's a real sharing of erotic energy even if it doesn't have to go anywhere in that setting. She really enjoyed seeing me make out with a buddy and I loved the exchange of energy. We have both evolved a lot in regard to what we feel is appropriate and inappropriate. Being naked or nearly so is just really natural and now that she is into a fundoshi, I can anticipate whether she will pair it with a top or not around the house.
As for my fundoshi parties, they are a lot of fun. There is something very "college" about all of the clothes coming off as soon as everyone enters the house. The swimming, fundoshi swaps and the hugs are all good. In talking with the guys one on one the next week, I find that they all get something good out of this which carries forward. Some have even hooked up and I think we have two that are becoming a serious couple as a result of meeting this way. I see fundoshi as about loosening up, throwing off the conventions and learning who we are. If you can hang with your buddies naked or nearly so, you can all be who you are and have a good time. You can kiss a buddy and not have to explain what kind of emotion it is or be defensive about it. I'm so glad I've broken down that wall. This is just good "guy stuff", but I am aware I'm a better partner to my g/f too. I'm more in tune with her needs. No piece of cloth can do that but it was a catalyst for shaking off convention and learning more about who we are.
that is advantageous!
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