Wearing fundoshi can be stimulating... very stimulating! You may not be able to make it through the day without touching yourself. You may not even be able to make it through getting your fundoshi fully tied on in the first place!
Fundoshi pockets and cradles your shaft and your sack, nuzzles against the perineum (taint) and anus, looks eyeball-melting in the mirror, and involves hands-on involvement when you are putting it on or taking it off. The cool glide of fabric against your sensitive parts means erections happen -- quite frequently! Over the course of a day, when you think of yourself trussed up in fundoshi, you might get stiff. The tight fabric might rub against your glans or the snugness around your balls just might prove too much.
As I sit at the keyboard, undressed except for a white t-shirt and a navy blue fundoshi sitting loosely around my hips, I'm getting tingles. My cock is pulsing lightly. The skin of my shaft is stretching a little, and I am quite seriously considering jacking off.
For me, masturbation is more than just an outcome-oriented activity. I do like cumming as much as the next person, the chills and thrills and tingles and sparks of an orgasm. I like seeing hot semen leap out of my dick and splash all over my hands, my chest and tummy, maybe the mirror, maybe the wall, maybe the floor. I like that. Of course I like that.
But as much as I like that, I like the slow build up to it just as much. The slower, the better: the longer I get to enjoy the ecstatic feelings, and the bigger the payoff when I finally go over the edge and pump slick milky-white cum all over the place. It was a long time before I realized that this was what people were talking about when they mentioned edging. Going to the edge, then staying there as long as you can.
It was almost immediately after discovering fundoshi that I connected it with self-loving. At first, it was masturbating to especially hot photos or just watching my own fundoshi-clad bod in the mirror. I'd first massage my cock and cup my balls through the fabric, then when my tip popped right out from under the cloth I'd slide the pouch over and furiously finish myself. Films and videos added variety, but after a while (to be honest, a long while) of this simple enjoyment, I realized I was under-utilizing the fundoshi's potential.
There is just so much more you can do with a fundoshi!
I wanted to share some of the ways I've found to use the fundoshi when I'm in the mood to pleasure myself. All of these translate quite well to partner sex, too, either if you're treating a male partner to a fundoshi session or if you're being treated by someone else. Great for foreplay or to spice up group encounters.
1. Simply putting on and taking off the fundoshi, over and over. The loose cloth brushing against a thick erection can be intoxicating, and different parts get pressed, rubbed, tugged, and manipulated as the fundoshi is repeatedly tightened and loosened. This is an excellent first step for foreplay, whether with a partner or just for playing with yourself!
2. An early discovery was that once the fundoshi is off, a small loop can be tied in one end. I would fit this loop over my tackle and position it just behind my balls (right against the perineum). Then I would pull the other 7-plus feet of the fundoshi backwards, through the valley of my ass, and up and over one shoulder. I would hold that end with one hand while I worked my shaft with the other hand. The loop acted like a cock ring, making my erection really hard, while tugging the other end would simultaneously press my perineum and pull my cock slightly downward. This is a good way to stave off orgasms for a while, not to mention to shoot forceful record-breaking long-distance loads. A partner can also use the free end as a leash, tugging and stimulating you while you're inside their mouth or other orifices.
3. When you slide the fabric of the pouch over so you can get at your dick more readily, leave your balls slung inside the cloth. Pull and tug on various parts of the fundoshi (the pouch, the belt, the thong) while you are masturbating. Simple, but very satisfying.
4. If you ever use a vibrator, keep your fundoshi on and tied tightly. Glide the vibrator over your erect shaft, right through the cloth. Tuck the vibrator down into the pouch and just leave it there for a while. Pull it back out and touch it onto the twisted belt part of the fundoshi, right at one corner of the pouch -- you'll be amazed at how the vibrations travel throughout the whole fundoshi! Also touch it to the twist just behind your balls for much the same effect. I love this so much. Try moving the vibrator around the fundoshi to different places -- this was an amazing discovery for me, and I had arranged for my partner to "walk in on me" -- needless to say the results were ultimately explosive.
If you're able to incorporate a butt plug into your fundoshi (maybe one with a wide, flat base so you can easily tie the fundoshi on right over it), you can touch the vibrator to the base of it for a nice, deep, thrilling sensation. Cock rings also work nicely in conjunction with fundoshi, filling out the pouch visually by pushing your balls forward and keeping your penis engorged and sensitized for a vibe to work on, or an oiled hand, or both!
Look at this lucky fellow:
Don't you just want to touch a vibrator to various parts of him, and hear his moans? Better keep a towel handy, he is definitely going to blow all over the place!
This next method isn't strictly for solo sessions, but you can do it to yourself one-handed too (see #3):
5. If you've found yourself still mostly contained in your fundoshi while a partner fellates you or while you're penetrating them, have them grab onto the belt of the fundoshi with both hands (like someone might use "love handles") and tug lightly up and towards themself. This will give them a lot of control, pulling you into them. And it will feel great to you, too. If you like things a little rougher, have them pull more forcefully. I feel like this works best if your balls are still slung in the fundoshi pouch, even if your shaft has sprung free and pouch is pulled to the side below your belly, where it goes under the belt.
These five methods have added a lot to fundoshi-wearing sessions where my mind has wandered into the gutter, or when I'm horny and just can't resist touching myself but don't necessarily want to shuck my fundoshi just yet.
Writing about this subject has tickled my brainstem a bit. My fundoshi is on really loose right now, barely tied at all really, for comfort since I'm just lounging and typing this column. I don't usually enjoy a beer this early in the day, but I have no commitments so I'm sipping a bottle of Grolsch. I've gotten pretty hard over the course of the last bunch of paragraphs, and my cock growing and shifting against the material of my fundoshi has been a bit distracting. My whole body seems to be humming.
I think I need to sign off for now!